it's bothersome to have to point out this, but a man playing anal play has nothing to do with their standing about the hetero/homosexual scale. One reason pegging has been somewhat taboo is that there's a particularly barbarous subset of homophobic"idea" that instills anal delights with being homosexual... along with the unspoken premise that being gay is bad, obviously. That is foolish. It seems great, for everybody. "So, I am interested in strapping on a dildo and pegging that you..." So be truthful.