While there’s a huge fascination regarding the size of one’s penis or Dildo sex toy, many women aren’t looking for a massive penis or Dildo sex toy. They’re simply looking for a suitable motion in the ocean, if you catch our drift.

Having said that, if you’re being intimate with someone who’s got a larger member, or purchased a sex toy that’s bigger than expected, it may initially may seem to not be a one-size-fits-all situation and be quite daunting. You may experience have the fear that it could be painful or the opposite, that you will enjoy it so much that you won’t be able to enjoy the smaller pleasures anymore. 

In reality, the vagina is quite flexible. When the body is aroused, blood rushes to this erogenous zone, making it much more accommodating to a larger penis or sex toy. And the more aroused you are, the more accommodating the vagina is – you will be surprised! And don’t worry, it will go back to its normal size after play time because of its flexible nature.

KEGEL EXERCISES

But if you'd like to enhance how fast your vagina'bounces back' or need to enjoy the'tighter' sense more frequently -- do kegels! Because when you perform your kegel exercises, then you are strengthening your pelvic floor. This won't only allow you to adapt a bigger penis or sex toy, but may also pave the way for stronger and better orgasms.

TAKE A WARM BATH 

Taking a warm bath will relax your muscles, and will allow for better blood flow. You can begin with self-exploration and slowly introduce your favorite submergible sex toys for additional stimulation. We recommend the LELO Sila Sonic Clitoral Massager for a buildable clitoral orgasm

MASSAGE OR ORAL SEX 

For those who are sexually active, you could choose other ways to get you and your partner going. Incorporate a lot of foreplay before penetration, as this will allow extra blood to flow to the vagina, making it more flexible and hence accommodating. You can begin with a sensual massage and further stimulate the senses with aromatic massage oils. Combine the experience with a wand massager like the powerful Original Doxy Plug-In Wand Massager to further relax the muscles and when ready, progress to stimulating the intimate areas. You can both also enjoy the thrilling experience of Oral sex. It might be a lot more pleasurable for you to take his larger penis in your mouth to begin with. Finally, adding a little bondage, like the SCANDAL BLACKOUT EYEMASK, can heighten your other senses during foreplay and make you eager to enjoy the filling sensation of your partner.

LUBRICANT 

Lubricant is a great sexual wellness product for any and everyone, but will prove to be even more effective if you’ve got a sex toy that you feel is too big, or your partner is a bit too large. Lube will help create a smoother glide, but just remember to take things slow and at your own comfort level. We suggest the LELO Personal Moisturizer, a water-based lube, or Uberlube, a silicone-based lube.

STOPPERS RINGS 

Wide flexible rings placed at the base of a penis or sex toy can help reduce the insertable length to one that is more comfortable. SILICONE STACKER RINGS can be stacked to achieve the desired length and can be removed one by one once your body is more aroused and you feel ready for deeper penetration. Stopper rings can give you peace of mind that you won't have the accidental ‘slip’ while also giving the added bonus of helping your partner maintain a longer lasting erection.

TAKE CONTROL 

By choosing to take control during partnered penetration, such as deciding what position to try, you’ll be able to be the master of your own pleasure. You can experiment with different kinds of styles to find which one feels the best. Remember that communication with your partner is super important too when it comes to getting the best.

TIGHT MISSIONARY 

To make things more comfortable, you could take on the tight missionary position. This is when your legs are kept together during your tryst, allowing less penetration (but still a tight feeling of it all going inside for your partner). 

SPOONING 

While you can’t spoon your sex toy, you can have sex in this position. Spooning allows for less penetration, and is always a really intimate way to incorporate kissing, cuddling, and wandering hands.